Have you seen the film Victoria and Abdul yet?
If not, I recommend you do.
Full disclosure, I worship Dame Judi Dench. Can’t remember a movie she’s been in that I haven’t loved.
But I didn’t choose this movie for my first YouTube review because of the Dame. I chose it because it’s an unequivocal example of how to practice active acceptance.
Active Acceptance: a willingness to stand up for another whether you agree with, or understand, their beliefs/choices or not.
That being said, defending those who are persecuted due to race, beliefs, sexuality etc. isn’t easy for those of us who don’t rule our own countries. (Though Victoria faced all kinds of opposition and threats while standing up for Abdul. You can read more about it in my review.)
In recent weeks, people in Hollywood have found the courage to stand up for themselves and others as whistle blowers. Not easy to do when your paycheck/career is on the line.
I guess what each of us has to ask ourselves when faced with an unfair and potentially harmful situation is what are we willing to endure to defend another’s right to be who they are…whether we agree with their beliefs/choices or not.
I’ve never had to risk my livelihood to stand up for another, so I hope, but don’t know if I’d have the courage to do that. But I have continued to hone my active acceptance skills in daily life, especially with my husband.
My aim is that we model and teach the practice of active acceptance to our kids so they won’t have to face as much prejudice, judgment, and even harm due to their choices. That we can raise a generation that when faced with ‘the other,’ will use their initial fear as a trigger to activate their curiosity and acceptance towards that person, and courage if necessary.
Check out my review and let me know what you think by replying to this letter, or posting your reactions in the comments section of my YouTube page.
And if you go see the movie, please post your own reviews and thoughts about the film on my YouTube page comments section too.
Please spread the word about my project/channel and encourage others to subscribe to my newsletter/YouTube Channel if you think they would speak to them.
Feel free to suggest other neat ways I can expose folks to Active Acceptance. You can send me video ideas, and whatever else you can think of by replying to this letter, or tweeting me, or posting a comment on my YouTube channel. I can use all the help I can get.
Purple Passion of the Fortnight:
My Queen Katherine of Aragon (the only wife of Henry the VIII to keep her head) purple wedding dress.
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Any picture book readers out there?
I don’t write PBs, so I don’t read them often, but AFTER THE FALL by Dan Santat caught my attention right away.
But it wasn’t the book itself that first grabbed me, it was the story behind it. Long story short, Dan’s wife has struggled with anxiety for years. After many attempts, she’s finally found her formula for creating a peaceful and meaningful life.
While watching her journey, Dan realized the courage it took to dance with terror and rise above it, so he decided to write a book about it. He chose to look at what happened to Humpty Dumpty after he fell. Could he get back up on his wall?
It’s a powerful tribute to all of us who manage brain illnesses, and a great example of Active Acceptance. That’s because Dan shows us that the first step to wellness is actively accepting our own fear. Not trying to hide it, or deny it, or beat ourselves up about it, but just sitting with it and maybe even making adjustments for it at first.
For more of the story, but not the surprise ending, check out my YouTube review.
Please spread the word about my project/channel and encourage others to subscribe to this newsletter and/or my YouTube Channel if you think they would speak to them. (If you haven’t already subscribed to my YouTube Channel, I hope you will too.)
Feel free to suggest neat ways I can expose folks to Active Acceptance. You can send me video ideas, and whatever else you can think of by replying to this letter, or tweeting me, or posting a comment on my YouTube channel. I can use all the help I can get.
Purple Passion of the Fortnight:
Humpty Dumpty of course!
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At long last, I’d like to unveil my YouTube Channel to you, my dear subscribers!
So far I’ve posted 4 videos with three more being edited for uploading. (The next one should be uploaded today.)
Because the characters in my books wrestle with acceptance, and choosing to make decisions from a place of curioustiy and self- love rather than fear, the current focus of my channel is my Active Acceptance Project.
What is Active Acceptance? I’m still figuring that out, but here’s my definition so far:
ACCEPTANCE DOES NOT DEMAND AGREEMENT. By ACTIVELY ACCEPTING others we learn to find delight in the diversity around us, and to break the cycle of confrontation embedded in the idea that we must agree with others in order to co-exist with them.
The ACTIVE part of active acceptance is our willingness to defend others against bullies or other types of challenges, especially when we don’t agree with their beliefs or lifestyle choices.
My videos will include examples of Active Acceptance in the form of reviews of books, (see my first book review below) movies, and tv shows that model active acceptance, interviews, some of which are already up, and activities that you can do with kids of all ages. These activities are designed to introduce tools and concepts that will help you, and those around you, practice active acceptance in your daily life.
For active acceptance is a muscle–a muscle that must be used as much as possible. And like building any other muscle or habit, it takes time to incorporate it into your daily life.
I hope you’ll join me on this journey.
Please suggest books, tv shows, activities, articles etc. that I can use to help make Active Acceptance a mainstream concept and provide folks with more tools to help them practice it every day.
You can share by leaving comments below, or by leaving comments on my YouTube Channel.
Learning to meet those that are different from us, and life’s challenges from a place of curiosity and self-acceptance instead of fear, will change our world.
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Purple Passion of the Fortnight:
YouTube’s logo if I were in charge!
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